Dear Sarra.
Jealousy is not good. It could ‘kill’ u. As a friend.. I think its about time for u to change after 28 years leaving with it. Changes cant be done in overnight. U need time to change.
Hence.. I give u 2 years to overcome this jealousy. Lets make that as ur KPI.
I believe u can change! Why? Becoz xxx once very jealosy person. Memang jeles tahap cipan. But I managed to help him to change that.
Something I found while goggling
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If jealousy is an issue in your relationship or marriage, then you already know that jealous feelings and jealousy can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing.Any expert will agree that, if left unchecked, jealous feelings and jealousy can single-handedly destroy an otherwise good or even great relationship. Most people dealing with jealousy think they are doomed to live with it forever. We can understand why you might think that way. The reality is that we know you can stop the jealousy.
It shows up when one person or both people in the relationship are very insecure in their relationship or in life. Jealous feelings come up with a partner, or others, whose actions haven't warranted it.Whatever is going on--whether the jealousy is "warranted" or not--fear is at the bottom of those feelings and there's a lot more going on than what is on the surface. Until we look at those fears and begin to heal them, no matter what relationship we're in, jealousy will creep in again and again.In their descriptions about their jealousy challenges, many people talk about "withdrawing," "getting quiet," "becoming numb," "saying things they didn't mean" and "lashing out." These behaviors are all ways to shield, protect and insulate themselves from the pain they are feeling inside themselves. These things they are doing also create a serious impact on their relationships. If jealousy is an issue in your life, we suggest that you try to understand your behavior and what's underneath it and then you can begin to take steps to heal it.
Jealousy is not good. It could ‘kill’ u. As a friend.. I think its about time for u to change after 28 years leaving with it. Changes cant be done in overnight. U need time to change.
Hence.. I give u 2 years to overcome this jealousy. Lets make that as ur KPI.
I believe u can change! Why? Becoz xxx once very jealosy person. Memang jeles tahap cipan. But I managed to help him to change that.
Something I found while goggling
~~~
If jealousy is an issue in your relationship or marriage, then you already know that jealous feelings and jealousy can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing.Any expert will agree that, if left unchecked, jealous feelings and jealousy can single-handedly destroy an otherwise good or even great relationship. Most people dealing with jealousy think they are doomed to live with it forever. We can understand why you might think that way. The reality is that we know you can stop the jealousy.
It shows up when one person or both people in the relationship are very insecure in their relationship or in life. Jealous feelings come up with a partner, or others, whose actions haven't warranted it.Whatever is going on--whether the jealousy is "warranted" or not--fear is at the bottom of those feelings and there's a lot more going on than what is on the surface. Until we look at those fears and begin to heal them, no matter what relationship we're in, jealousy will creep in again and again.In their descriptions about their jealousy challenges, many people talk about "withdrawing," "getting quiet," "becoming numb," "saying things they didn't mean" and "lashing out." These behaviors are all ways to shield, protect and insulate themselves from the pain they are feeling inside themselves. These things they are doing also create a serious impact on their relationships. If jealousy is an issue in your life, we suggest that you try to understand your behavior and what's underneath it and then you can begin to take steps to heal it.
Solutions - If you are jealous, you need to communicate. You need to stop assuming the worst and ask questions. Communicate your feelings so you can work out solutions.
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My sis relationship with her X fiance come to an end becoz of unneccesary jealousy on his part..it's really damaging gul..
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